It can be difficult to know whether someone you’ve met is a swinger. There are a lot of different types of people that you may come across on a daily basis. If you are interested in whether or not someone is a swinger, then you may need to come right out and ask them. Even then you may not get an honest response. Not all swingers are open about what they do sexually and this can mean that even when someone comes out and asks them they deny it. Here are a few ways to try to get a response from them.

Bringing it up

A lot of the time you can get a lot from someone when you simply bring up a specific subject. You can then try to read them and go from there. If you happen to mention swinging you can see if they seem interested or if they want to talk about it. If they seem uncomfortable by the subject change, then it is usually best to change it again. Even if they are a swinger they are not likely to want to tell you.

Asking Them

Sometimes you just have to come right out and ask them if they swing. This is something that can be uncomfortable if they don’t. However, it is the best way to find out what you want to know without having to hint around it too much.

Hinting to Them

Hinting around to them is something that can be a good way to figure out what it is that they do without asking.